Patrico Tib Ottley

Patricio Tib Ottley, known as Tib to those close to him, was born on November 28, 1979, in Evanston, Wyoming. Named after his grandfathers, he grew up with the affectionate nickname “Tibby” from his family, a name that evolved over time as he matured. By middle school, he was simply known as Tib, though his older sister continued to call him Tibby.

Tib's passion for cooking began in high school, leading him to a notable career in the culinary world. He honed his skills at the Four Seasons, eventually becoming a sous-chef. His dedication to his craft took him to Peru, where he contributed to teaching at a culinary school. When he, his father, and his bonus mom, Diana, opened a restaurant, Tib embraced the name “Chef Patricio” in his professional role.

Tib's creativity extended beyond his culinary skills. As a high school student, his artistic talent was evident when he was caught forging his mother’s signature—an impressive feat of artistry. He won an award for a painting he entered in the D.A.R.E. program, and his gift for drawing was showcased in a cherished illustration of Michael Jordan performing his iconic jump shot for his sister.

Music was another of Tib’s passions. He loved Van Halen and Dave Matthews Band, and though he couldn't read music, he had a remarkable ability to play songs by ear on the guitar and piano. His constant strumming of Van Halen tunes brought both joy and occasional frustration to his family, who now deeply miss those moments.

Tib was a beloved middle child to his sisters, Stormy and Kendall, and a fun uncle to his nieces and nephew—Jordan, Lyrik, and Skye. His playful spirit was evident in the funny song he made up for his nephew Skye, who loved Batman and frequently suffered from diaper rashes. The playful “ButtRash” song became a source of great laughter and cherished memories…“Da da da da da da da da da da da da da da ButtRash.”

In addition to his many interests, Tib enjoyed traveling, skiing, hunting, and camping. His love for pickles and lemons was as strong as his dedication to his three turtles: Tuck, Sam, and Onisimo. His loyalty extended to his favorite sports teams, the Detroit Lions and the Chicago White Sox. Christmas was Tib’s favorite holiday, and his family has since worked to honor his memory by celebrating it with the same joy he brought to the occasion.

Tragically, Tib passed away on December 17, 2010, by suicide. His absence is deeply felt, not only during the holiday season but every day. His memory lives on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

Patrico Tib Ottley 11/28/1979 – 12/17/2010